Recently Lord Jamar has been in the news for some pretty
incendiary comments. Those topics range from Macklemore to White People’s
places in hip hop. Out of the controversial statements he’s made there are so
many journalistic opportunities to respond to. But one of his statements caught
my attention and forced me to address it in this blog post because it’s
something that’s more recent.
“First of all, it’s not just jabs at Kanye West. It’s
anybody promoting the feminization of the Black Man in hip hop culture.” ---Lord Jamar, SOHH.com
I speak to a lot of people on a lot of different blogs and
hip hop websites. And when this story appeared or when a subject similar to
this one appears in which a Black Man is wearing a “skirt” of some kind, you
pretty much hear the same type of words that Lord Jamar spoke. For example,
when a recent photo of Mos Def aka Yasiin Bey emerged of him wearing a Kente
cloth wrap, the hip hop fashion police were at it again. Bloggers called foul and labeled it a “dress”.
Homophobic words were peppered throughout numerous hip hop comments sections.
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“How dare he?” “What was he thinking?” “Dude is weird
anyway.” The judging was swift and mean. It was yet another case of a rapper
that had fallen victim to the feminization of Black Men.
When Omar Epps from classic hip hop movie Juice showed up on the show The View in what some perceived to be a
“skirt”, Lord Jamar got into a bit of a Twitter battle with Marlon Wayons (who
defended Omar) about the incident.
To a lot of hip hop purists there appears to be a secret
agenda to “feminize” the Black Man and to make hip hop more digestible to the
masses through visualized feminization tactics. Some hip hop heads believe that
“real” hip hoppers should never wear skirts or anything other than baggy jeans
and a baseball cap. They believe there is a secret agenda that exists, set up
by pro-gay rights people to infiltrate hip hop.
And I strongly disagree.
First, these people always seem to pop off when anyone wears
anything different than their chosen attire (Lord Jamar). People like Lord
Jamar label themselves as strong, righteous Black Men. Yet when they speak,
their ignorance betrays them and reveals that they are really nothing more than
ill-informed conspiracy theorists in dark closets. Why?
If you take it back to the motherland (Africa) you will see
that these so-called “skirts” that most hip hoppers are complaining about are
there. And they have been there from the very beginning! For instance, the
Maasi Tribe has worn and continues to wear their traditional garb. These
masculine men wear numerous bright colors and unique print within their clothing.
To the Maasi Tribe the items are their clothing. But to most of you American
haters, they’re “skirts”.
If Lord Jamar and people like him would take some time to do
a little bit of research, even on the internet, their so-called “knowledge of
self” would stand out less as a slogan and more as actual truth. Even when Omar
Epps revealed that his attire during his visit to The View was a tribute to his ancestors and his African roots, Lord
Jamar refused to accept it. One can only hope that he learns more about who he
is and where he came from.
I know that I’ll have a few people to state that traditional
African clothing is different than skirts. To them I would say this; it had to
begin somewhere. To me the word ‘traditional’ only means “extended period of
time”. But one African brother had to be the first person to put it on. Just
because you’ve been programmed to believe that “only women wear skirts” and
didn’t do the knowledge for yourself doesn’t mean that your ignorance is an
excuse.
Now if Kanye West, Mos Def, Omar Epps, and numerous others
walked into a Macy’s Department store and made the purchase in the women’s
section and then openly stated that they were trying to make hip hop softer for
the masses, Lord Jamar would be absolutely correct. But that’s not the case.
But let’s keep it even realer. Let’s name some Black Men
that actually wore skirts.
Eddie Murphy, Arsenio Hall, Chris Tucker, Flip Wilson, Jamie
Foxx, Wesley Snipes… I could go on and on. But none of their bank accounts seem
to indicate that fewer people purchased their works because of the perceived
“feminization of Black Men”. And these men wore actual women’s skirts and
makeup! How long has Eddie Murphy been in the game? How many of his movies do
you own? I’ll bet a million of you dudes saw Jamie Foxx in the movie Ray. I’ll even bet Lord Jamar saw it.
But he didn’t protest it because Jamie Foxx was dressed up as “Wanda” on In Living Color. And before some of you
come out of your mouth and say, “Rapping is different than acting” I would
submit Rick Ross as my proof that hip hop is on par with acting. Ross took his
name and his persona from another person and was actually a prison guard. Next!
Me as a person, I would never wear that type of gear because
my preference is jeans. It is what I’m accustomed to and what makes me
comfortable. But I’m not going to judge someone who chooses differently. We as
hip hoppers need to understand that the world isn’t always against us.
Sometimes we do it to ourselves. Conspiracy theories aside, one man is
responsible for his own behavior. While trends do emerge and some people do
ultimately follow suit we are accountable individually.
Lord Jamar is right in his viewing of fashion trends. A lot of men are
choosing to push this button. But it’s based on fashion trends and not some
conspiracy against Black men. What can we expect in the age of Facebook and
Twitter? We are a nation of followers and biters. We are the “like button”
generation.
We have to stop judging entire blocks of people based on our
phobias or ignorant and unsubstantiated theories. We hurt far too many innocent
people when we do this. While Lord Jamar may be correct in detecting a certain
pattern or fashion trend, attacking someone because you don’t agree with that
trend is out of bounds. You govern your life. Just simply say that you don’t
get down with it. You don’t know what motivates others.